Your Questions About Generalised Anxiety Disorder Test

Lizzie asks…
how to get tested for gad?
i think i have gad (generalized anxiety disorder). i was wondering, how do you know if you have gad? do doctors take a blood test of some sort, or is it just the symptoms that recognize that you have the disorder?

Jonjune answers:
A disorder is not found in the blood– you are generally diagnosed by someone who has a background in psychology, be it a general practitioner or a psychiatrist.

Jenny asks…
Need advice on how to talk to my mom about this?
A few days ago I realized I showed all the symptoms for GAD(Generalized Anxiety Disorder) and SAD (Social Anxiety Disorder).I took tests on it,read articles about it,watched videos on it. I could say I’m 100% sure about it but that would be false.I’m not sure until I know from a doctor. I want to tell my mom but I’m sure she will laugh at me. Plus,we don’t really have the money. But I need help. I’m glad that there may be a reason for my problems.I’m glad that I may be able to get help.I’m just worried that people in my family will treat me differently.I’m worried that my mom won’t help me.
Btw,if this helps:
My mom is in school to be a nurse.She is graduating in May 2011

Jonjune answers:
Okay i think your mom will be able to help you especially if she is going to be a nurse, she will understand. She may think at first you are joking or something but let her know how you feel. A strong bond between teens and parents is important for both their well being

Maria asks…
Hypochondriac question really?
I fainted when I was pregnant [almost 2 yrs ago] & have been dizzy ever since. Now, I’m having difficulty breathing- & heart issues [which every heart test has come back normal- so they've ruled it as anxiety]
originally they passed the original passing out [which I did- twice in a row- my husband doesnt know if i stopped breathing or not- first he said yes then no then he couldnt remember- he tapped my face to get me back- & i had just come out of a hot shower with no food early in the morning] they ruled it as low iron- but my iron was fine the same day at the doctor then they ruled it as hormones.
well now im still dizzy- & theyve passed all the heart tests & called me with Panic Disorder & Generalized Anxiety Disorder.
they said id know if i had a head injury by now

Jonjune answers:
Did they check to see if you were suffering from Vertigo? I have problems with it, sometimes it gets worse when I’m stressed. I’m also diabetic, did they check your blood sugar? Fluctuations in blood pressure can cause it too.

James asks…
are you inadequate if you feel easily intimidated at times?
im 32 and faced a few traumas, misfortunes throughout my life – i have had long standing ‘ severe ‘ anxiety problems for many years , even though ive been diagnosed with personality disorders – im trying to get an independent psychiatric test to see if i have co existing anxiety disorders, the disorders i suspect are ; ptsd – ocd and generalised anxiety disorder.
my symptoms are ; paranoia that society is socially persecuting me, alienating me and ostracising me – racing thoughts and obsessive worries everyday , rapid mood swings to deep depressions and severe anxious thoughts and worries , severe anger , difficulty controlling it . agoraphobia , panic and bad anxiety relating to going outside , hyper alert and paranoia when outside , Dissociation – feeling detached when outside .
those are my main symptoms even though ive made a lot of progress in the years.
for a long while ive felt an unfriendly atmosphere at times from people outside, in supermarkets or other public settings , funny , cold unfriendly looks , stand-offish behaviour – something i cant put my finger on why its happening …
i could understand it many years ago when i used to struggle with angry outbursts and an angry demeanor – but that was many, many years ago , and i lived in other areas then.
and i feel this attitude / behaviour by people in society is still going on – supermarket workers , members of the public etc.
i cant understand why it could be happening , im quiet , reserved , mind my own business, try to be civil and courteous to the people i come into contact with – i dont look out of the ordinary or stand out – im white , dress how i want , i wear old clothes , hooded tops, jeans – cant afford new clothes right now because i live on disability payment , 6ft tall . – im the sort of person who doesn’t follow society trends , if i dont have good clothes , ill go out wearing what i want , even if its scruffy.
my point is i dont behave out of the ordinary, dont look out of the ordinary except for my clothing – im quite self conscious because of my paranoia but i try to ignore it , i might appear uneasy in public or aloof myself . –
but i do try with people, to be civil etc – respect society’s rules , be friendly –
but i get these attitudes from people at times still and it does make me feel quite intimidated , which causes me to feel inadequate because i try to ignore anything negative outside.
anyone know how best to deal with it ?

Jonjune answers:
Its possible you are perceiving an attitude in people that isn’t actually there, this can be a component in social anxiety, and I experience it from time-to-time.
Also, the world is full of different types of people, some of them are just unfriendly douchbags. I know its not easy, but just try not to let them get under your skin. They act that way towards everyone, not just you.

Betty asks…
Are antideppressants bad for you?
im 32 now , i was diagnosed with different personality disorders by different doctors years ago, im also pursuing a separate, independent psychiatric test because i know i have co existing anxiety disorders : OCD , PTSD and generalised anxiety disorders.
i have most of the symptoms for each, but more the ptsd and generalised anxiety disorder, if i have these disorders i feel its important for them to be diagnosed and recognised, so im pursuing a separate psychiatric test.
i was put on an anti depressant months ago by my psychiatrist and i have to say, its helped me quite a lot with the depressed , empty moods i get , but not fully.
i saw and heard reports recently that psychiatric medication can cause a lot of damage to the brain and body….causing diseases in the brain, can rot the brain.
this news worried me a lot, is this the case ? am i safe to continue taking my anti depressant medications ?

Jonjune answers:
Hi,
Drugs are tested very carefully and millions of people throughout the world take anti depressants so if they caused major harm to people everyone would know bout it and the drugs would be removed.
When anti depressants first came out in the 1950′s some did cause problems such as very high blood pressure.
However the modern day medications are much safer.
They will not rot your brain.
So keep taking them.
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Your Questions About Panic Attacks Causes

Betty asks…
Can panic attacks cause an asthma attack?
Sometimes when I have panic attacks, I start to wheeze uncontrollably. I do have asthma, and I was wondering can fear set of asthma? I was diagnosed with asthma 2 weeks ago and I don’t really know too much about it. Sorry.

Jonjune answers:
Panic attacks start when the fight-or-flight response of the body acts up uncontrollably, usually without any explicit cause. The actual attack sets in because this scares us tremendously and causes even further fear and anxiety to be generated, then the elevated level of anxiety scares us even further… And so on and so on… It’s a self-aggravating process that sort of automatically makes itself stronger over a very short period of time by ‘feeding back into ourselves’.
Panic attacks usually don’t cause actual medical problems. It’s possible that if you become so scared and panicked that you begin to hyper-ventilate, then your asthma-afflicted lungs will naturally have some difficulty. Usually though, people suffering from panic attacks are simply so terrified that subtle changes in breathing and heart beat FEEL very exaggerated.
One of the most common things that frighten people having anxiety attacks is the overwhelming notion that they are about to have a heart attack. They seem to literally feel their heart practically beating its way out of the chest. In actuality, though, a heart attack almost never really occurs (at least no more often than the ordinary person gets a heart attack). The individual is simply experiencing heightened sense perceptions that typically accompany the fight-or-flight response, and don’t realize that they are actually just paying closer attention to their heartbeat than they ever would bother to ordinarily. Thus, their increased heart-rate seems to them to be many times more pronounced than it actually is.

Sharon asks…
How do you cure yourself of reoccuring Panic Attacks?
I have had 4 major panic attacks this year since my brother passed way. I have anxiety usually everyday. Doc gave me paxil and buspar but its not fixing the problem. What are panic attacks caused by and how do I get rid of them? I’ve always been outgoing and very strong and now Im not at all! Help!
Thank you all, I will def try therapy!

Jonjune answers:
Talk to your doctor. Paxil didn’t seem to help me either. I was on Zoloft for a while, but Xanax has really helped. It treats both depression and anxiety disorders. You may also want to consider talking to a therapist in addition to the medicine or joining a support group for people that have lost loved ones.
The thing is that the meds will help, but you can’t rely just on those. You have to treat your emotional baggage to, you know?
Good luck with everything and hang in there!

Ruth asks…
What causes panic attacks?
i have been waking up with panic attacks. It was the most horrible thing i have ever experienced. I felt very dizzy and faint and thought i was going to die. What should i do if this happens again. It really frightens me. please help.

Jonjune answers:
Don’t panic. Deal with your problems as best you can. Remember, this too shall pass.
How can i stop having panic attacks caused by homework??
Ok…i have a LOT of homework. Problem is I really wanna finish it but i cant.
I get so overwhelmed (especially from AP physics) that i cant focus…i literally eat my nails off, and start panicking. Pretty soon…i start pacing, trying to think of a problem. However…i CANT, all can think about is how much homework i have!! I get so stressed…these have to be panic attacks.
is there anything i can do to calm down and get through my homework?

Jonjune answers:
My man.
I know the feeling.
This is what you gotta do.
There are two ways you can deal with problems that stress you out real bad.
One way is to totally avoid them, like you are doing.
The other way is to take it on, and be SUCCESSFUL (that is the key part)
If you are not successful you will not want to keep going.
So be successful, and if so, this will give you confidence.
With confidence, you won’t be scared anymore.
Best way is to give it a shot. And, do it with friends!! That is a great way to get started.

Linda asks…
Can panic attacks cause excess levels of catecholamines in urine tests?
Can panic attacks cause excess levels of catecholamines in urine tests?
I realise that excess levels may indicate a hormone or adrenaline disorder, but in simple, plain panic attacks/panic disorder – is this likely to raise catecholamine levels?

Jonjune answers:
I’d say that this is unlikely … But if you want to learn more about the urine-catecholamines test why dont you check this
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/003613.htm
read :Why the Test is Performed . This should clear out every thing
good luck
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Your Questions About Anxiety Disorder Medications

Maria asks…
what medications are used to treat social anxiety disorder?
i think i have social anxiety disorder, i have an eating disorder, and i think i have depression.
i told my mom about the depression and she didn’t believe me.
only thing she worries about is my weight, since i don’t eat much and am still trying to lose weight (i’m 95lbs)
are there any medications for social anxiety disorder i can buy from a drugstore?
and i don’t feel comfortable talking to my doctor about this
when my doctor got worried about my weight loss, my mom made an excuse that i was walking more with her, even though when we left and i asked her why, she said she didn’t want them to think i was crazy
i asked my mom to take me to therapy or something, cause i used to cut, and if i get really upset now, i just don’t eat or snap a rubber band on my wrist (i usually welt a lot but it’s better than cutting)
but it’s been 2 years now (i asked when i was 12, and i’m 14 now)

Jonjune answers:
No.
The preferred pharmacolgical treatment for depression, anxiety, social anxiety, OCD, and related conditions are SSRIs (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors) such as paroxetine (Paxil), fluoxetine (Prozac), citalopram (Celexa), escitalopram (Lexapro), and SSNRIs (selective serotonin and norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors) such as venlafaxine (Effexor), and duloxetine (Cymbalta), among others.
Because different people respond differently to different medications, it may take several tries before you find the one that works best for you. However once you do, you’ll find it works quite well. It will be much easier for you to manage your anxiety and you will have a generally rosier outlook on life.
The only way to get them is by prescription, so you’ll need to see a doctor. News flash: YOU NEED TO ANYWAY. You have an eating disorder. Unless you like feeling horribly about yourself, thinking you’re pudgy when everyone around you sees a skeleton, there is no reason for you not to speak with a doctor or counselor about this. What’s it going to hurt? Nothing.
I’m going to say this just on the off chance you don’t actually realize it: You’re not fat, you’re just extremely self-conscious and have the false notion that if you are slim, extremely thin, that you will be “prettier.” This couldn’t be further from the truth. See a doctor. They’re not going to force feed you if you tell them you have an eating disorder.
PARENTS CAN BE, AND OFTEN ARE, WRONG. Your mother is not educated enough to know that in order to get you to eat, your underlying social anxiety and resulting poor body image need to be treated before you will feel you can eat. Realize this, but forgive her for it. Most parents are truly not as saavy in psychology as they should be. Many folks from our parents’ generation just don’t understand the idea of depression either. Doctors, however, know this, and they want to help you. You will never be forced to do something you really don’t want to do. They will ask you to, and will challenge you to do things they know are necessary for you to get better, but they will never force you.
If it helps, just show them your question and this answer.
Bear with your mother, and please, talk to a doctor.

Lizzie asks…
is there any ways to help ease an anxiety disorder without medication?
I took an online quiz, which I know isn’t as nearly accurate as a doctor but alot of the symptoms of which they asked have applied to me. Such as feelings dizzy or and an abnormaly high heart beat. I’m such a worrier but I thought that was just the way I am, but I really think its something more serious then that. I’m going to get this checked out by a doctor but in the meantime do you know of any home remedies or over the counter medicines that can help me with this? Thanks it would be greatly appreciated

Jonjune answers:
Try this site for some answers..www.panicsurvivor.com. You’ll get a lot of answers to your questions.

Ruth asks…
I have Bipolar and Social Anxiety Disorder. What is the best medications to treat both?

Jonjune answers:
No offence to the other contributors but the answers given are absolut nonsense. Bipolar is a mental illness that will stay with you for the rest of your live. Therefor you will have to stay on meds for the rest of your live. ONLY A PROFESINAL can give you legitimat advice as to what kind of drug you should take. Again, no offence but do not listen under any circumstances to “wanna-be-psychiatrists” and/or “wanna-be-therapists” and deffinatly don’t listen to what other mentaly ill people tell you about medications because what works for one does not neccasserely work for another.
My wife happens to be BP and i’m dealing with this MI for well over 20 years. It took almost 3 years for my wife to find the right “cocktail” of med’s that where right for her. She is “stable” right now for the better part even though she still expieriences some manias and mild depressions.
Again, talk to a person that is qualified to give you the proper advice and that should be a psychiatrist and/or psycho-therapist of your own choice. Don’t try to “self-diagnose” because that’s nonsece too.
whats your experience of taking medication for an Anxiety disorder ?
im interested to hear from anyones experience of taking medication for anxiety disorder or an anxiety related disorder.
what was you taking ?
any side effectc ?
did it help ect ?
many thanks

Jonjune answers:
I’m bipolar and have a history of anxiety issues. I’ve taken the three major anti-anxiety medications:
Clonazepam (Klonopin), which is used for social phobia and GAD
Lorazepam (Ativan), which is used for panic disorder
Alprazolam (Xanax), which is used for panic disorder and GAD.
Ativan did nothing for me. Xanax helped for a little while. I’m currently on Klonopin on an as needed basis and I love it. I know Xanax and Klonopin can be addictive. I try to take my anxiety med as little as possible so I won’t build up an addiction or a tolerance to it. I don’t think I’ve seen any negative side affects from it but I also don’t take a high dose or take it on a regular basis. They can definitely help. Each one affects people differently. When I’m really stressed or anxious, Klonopin calms me down, helps me reassess the situation, stop crying if it has come to that point, may make me a little drowsy (not the point of needing a nap) and just bring an overall peaceful calming feeling to me.
That has been my personal experience. Of course different medications work differently for different people; which is why there is such a wide variety of mental health medicines available. Good luck Finding the right one can be tricky but a big relief.

Paul asks…
General anxiety disorder: what medication worked best for you?
I’m really stressed out due to difficulties to find a job. Unfortunately I’m very anxious and tired. If you have experienced the same, could you tell me what worked for you?
Any sensible reply will be highly appreciated.
Thanks.

Jonjune answers:
XANAX IS A VERY VERY ADDICTIVE DRUG
it is NOT worth it….especially since that guy just had
anxiety from a break up, he had a short term anxiety issue
and Xanax is really only recommended for short term
rather long term for GAD you should be on an antidepressant
for this.
Zoloft is a very good antidepressant for anxiety, OCD, and depression……i went out with someone who had a pretty bad case of social anxiety but she took Zoloft 50mg..and it worked for her…barely any side effects except drowsiness so she’d always take it at night.
Anyways, yeah Zoloft is a miracle drug for anxiety.
So check it out and talk to your doctor about this.
I don’t take anything for anxiety….but like i said, was very close to someone WITH anxiety issues. I have bipolar disorder and ADHD, so i’m pretty used to anxiety, so i know how it’s like….BUT yeah. Take a chance with zoloft, ya won’t regret it. Also, yoga, drawing, painting,maybe even sculpting, singing,listening to music/playing musical instruments can all help you out to relieve your stress build up from anxiety.
Just research on coping methods with anxiety.
Good luck! Just hang in there, things will work out for you soon.
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Your Questions About Generalised Anxiety Disorder History

John asks…
Why am I Experiencing Joint Pain,Muscle Weakness and Shaking?
I have been to A and E and been told my heart is fine, blood tests fine, urine fine,EKG fine,chest x ray fine, blood pressure fine.
My main symptom is muscle weakness and feeling myself shaking and quivering.
Its usually when i am up doing stuff like housework. I don’t faint or pass out, but i feel like i could if i didn’t stop and rest/take breaks.
Sometimes I Feel a Little Dizzy and Disorientated.
I do have a history of mental health/Generalized Anxiety Disorder/Bipolar
Its not diabetes or hypoglycemia. I’ve been keeping a close eye on my blood sugar.
The best way I can describe the shaky/weak feeling is.. if you don’t eat all day or are very very scared.
Also my muscles are hurting and throbbing and occasionally I have twitching.
I’m scared that I will literally just keel over and die. I know something is very wrong.
I’m Definitely Not Withdrawing from Anything. It’s more Like the Actual Strain of Doing Normal Everyday Stuff is too Much for My Body to Handle.

Jonjune answers:
Drink water
eat vegetables
eat fruits
eat organic
go to an allergen doctor
walk every day, studies show that excercise in moderation can combat anxiety.
Stay away from junk food and caffiene and energy supplements.
Decaff chamomile tea can have a calming effect.
Sleep will be easier to find if you excercise properly.
I am not judging..but it sounds like you are having withdrawls to alcohol or some other substances.
Stress can also cause all these symptoms.
You need to be healthy. I know there are lots of ways to get healthy but I personally find playing the wii fit to be calming and relaxing especially when played alone. It allows you to go at your own pace and it is a pretty good thing for anxiety.
Tell your allergen doctor everything your experiencing. A bad diet can calso contribute to some of these feelings.
Goooooood luck friend!

Sharon asks…
I have Schizophrenia and now my friend wants to “Copy” me. :-/?
Hi there,
I have a long history of being a Mental Health System User with the Mental Health Services since ChildHood. I had a lot of Psychological problems after being abused at age 4 by a Family Friend. At age 13, I was diagnosed with Emotionally Unstable Personality Disorder (BorderLine P/D) or B/P/D. This was changed last year to Paranoid Schizophrenia as with my history of hearing ‘The Voices’ and seeing Demon’s and Satan and my new Psychiatrist felt that my original diagnosis was COMPLETELY wrong and it was changed. My other diagnosis’s are: O.C.D, Uni-Polar Depression, Generalised Anxiety Disorder, Social Anxiety Disorder, Panic Disorder, Self Mutilation Disorder and Insomnia/Hypersomnia along with Chronic Asthma and Moderate Mobility Problems.
Anyway, I get quite a substantial amount of money through Benefits that currently go into my Mother’s Bank Account as she is out of work and only gets £400.00 herself. I get £1,100.00 from Incapacity Benefit (With ‘Age Addition’), Income Support Premiums: Disability, Severe Disability and Enhanced Disability and Disability Living Allowance: High Rate (CARE) and Low Rate (MOBILITY).
Anyway, to get to the point. My friend says he doesn’t see why he should have to work £40 hours (P/Week) to get paid £950.00 when I get what I do for nothing. His exact words were “You’re on to a good crack and I want some”. This left me lost for words because what he doesn’t seem to realise is I’d gladly swap places with him ANY DAY if it meant I could function normally. I was quite upset really as he thinks it’s all about the money. Well that money helps me with my day to day expenses of having a Disability such as paying someone to clean for me, paying for meals on wheels, paying for a Carer to take me out, etc..
He said he’s gonna jack in his job and go on E.S.A and make out he see’s Ghosts and Zombies and God know’s what. He said he wants me to “teach him what to do”… Like WTF! Why would ANYBODY want to pretend to be a Schizophrenic. The ridicule and the funny looks because people think you’re a fruit-loop and don’t want to associate with you!
He has started out by going to his Doctor telling him he is having suicidal thoughts and feel’s severely Depressed. (He isn’t. There is nothing wrong with him). He is in the process of going on E.S.A at the moment and I think he was awarded it for a year, last week.
I feel so ANGRY because this is totally mocking the entire Benefit’s system! What do I do? I don’t particularly feel like having him as a Friend any more and am CERTAINLY *NOT* going to be giving him any pointers as to how he can defraud his Psychiatrist and other Doctors, etc..
So what can I do? Do I report him? Can I keep MSN logs and E-Mail’s and print them off and send them to D.W.P? What would you guys do in my situation?
Thanks everyone.
Lin. x

Jonjune answers:
Absolutely report him!!!!! Keep as much evidence as you can and provide it to the investigating authority. People like him make me sick he needs to be stopped.

Maria asks…
I have Schizophrenia and now my friend wants to “Copy” me and defraud Benefit system :-/?
Hi there,
I have a long history of being a Mental Health System User with the Mental Health Services since ChildHood. I had a lot of Psychological problems after being abused at age 4 by a Family Friend. At age 13, I was diagnosed with Emotionally Unstable Personality Disorder (BorderLine P/D) or B/P/D. This was changed last year to Paranoid Schizophrenia as with my history of hearing ‘The Voices’ and seeing Demon’s and Satan and my new Psychiatrist felt that my original diagnosis was COMPLETELY wrong and it was changed. My other diagnosis’s are: O.C.D, Uni-Polar Depression, Generalised Anxiety Disorder, Social Anxiety Disorder, Panic Disorder, Self Mutilation Disorder and Insomnia/Hypersomnia along with Chronic Asthma and Moderate Mobility Problems.
Anyway, I get quite a substantial amount of money through Benefits that currently go into my Mother’s Bank Account as she is out of work and only gets £400.00 herself. I get £1,100.00 from Incapacity Benefit (With ‘Age Addition’), Income Support Premiums: Disability, Severe Disability and Enhanced Disability and Disability Living Allowance: High Rate (CARE) and Low Rate (MOBILITY).
Anyway, to get to the point. My friend says he doesn’t see why he should have to work £40 hours (P/Week) to get paid £950.00 when I get what I do for nothing. His exact words were “You’re on to a good crack and I want some”. This left me lost for words because what he doesn’t seem to realise is I’d gladly swap places with him ANY DAY if it meant I could function normally. I was quite upset really as he thinks it’s all about the money. Well that money helps me with my day to day expenses of having a Disability such as paying someone to clean for me, paying for meals on wheels, paying for a Carer to take me out, etc..
He said he’s gonna jack in his job and go on E.S.A and make out he see’s Ghosts and Zombies and God know’s what. He said he wants me to “teach him what to do”… Like WTF! Why would ANYBODY want to pretend to be a Schizophrenic. The ridicule and the funny looks because people think you’re a fruit-loop and don’t want to associate with you!
He has started out by going to his Doctor telling him he is having suicidal thoughts and feel’s severely Depressed. (He isn’t. There is nothing wrong with him). He is in the process of going on E.S.A at the moment and I think he was awarded it for a year, last week.
I feel so ANGRY because this is totally mocking the entire Benefit’s system! What do I do? I don’t particularly feel like having him as a Friend any more and am CERTAINLY *NOT* going to be giving him any pointers as to how he can defraud his Psychiatrist and other Doctors, etc..
So what can I do? Do I report him? Can I keep MSN logs and E-Mail’s and print them off and send them to D.W.P? What would you guys do in my situation?
Thanks everyone.
Lin. x

Jonjune answers:
“I feel so ANGRY because this is totally mocking the entire Benefit’s system! ”
And yet here you are every week Lin, stating everything you have, how much you get, how often and the list is endless. Last time you asked on here it was because you were raped and how you going to *give* your mother compensation money and not tell the DWP, The time before that it was how to save up £20K of benefits to start a business without it affecting your benefits. The time before that it was about DLA, the time before that it was another question on how to keep money and not tell the DWP.
For someone so angry at someone *mocking* the system, you do like to tell us the nitty gritty personal details of your benefits claim!
If you are genuine, fine, but keep your business to yourself. There as NO need to inform ANYONE here of what your endless list of health problems are and what benefits you get for them, your question was about someone possibly committing fraud, so WHY list the benefits you get?
No one needs to know that.
Call the DWP if you feel that strongly about your friend. That’s it. Don’t do anything else, just speak to them about it and for the love of god, don’t go into a 20 hour explanation about what benefits you get, how often and what for, they don’t need to know that!
Just explain you have a friend whom you feel is obtaining benefits fraudulently!

Robert asks…
Could someone help me with some psychological issues?
I know this question might be intense/surprising to my contacts, but please bear with me. I also know it’s a long question, but it’s covering some important points.
In the past decade, I’ve been diagnosed with major depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder, and generalized anxiety disorder. One of my psychiatrists suspects I might actually have bipolar disorder. Psychiatric illness runs in my family (my uncle committed suicide, my sister has panic disorder, my mother has depression), but I also have childhood trauma that I’m working through that makes it worse. Out of the people in my nuclear family, I have the worst psychiatric issues and it causes my family a lot of pain, especially since I live so far away so they feel like they can’t help as much as they would like.
I’ve been taking medication (Fluvoxamine, 300mg – the highest dosage) for three years now and it’s really changed my life. I don’t experience overwhelming obsessions and compulsions because at such a high dose, it relieves my OCD symptoms. It also has really stabilized my mood so I’m a functional person. I’m doing well in college, I’m pretty popular at my school and have good friends, I write for the school newspaper, and I have an awesome job to help bring in money.
However, I ran out of medication last week and went into severe withdrawal. My psychiatrist’s receptionist wasn’t answering my calls for the three previous months, even as they grew more desperate (because I was running out of prescriptions). I began having “the shakes,” hallucinations, and a severe depression. I haven’t self-harmed since I was 15, but because of my withdrawal, I cut myself 50-60 times on my thighs and abdomen. I attempted suicide by trying to slice my ephemeral artery.
My roommate came to the rescue and took me to the urgent care unit, where I received two layers of stitches (sub-cutaneous and cutaneous) that totaled 17. Needless to say, I was completely batshit crazy last week. I finally got on some medication and am back to normal now, but I’m terrified something like that will happen again and that I will succeed in killing myself.
I know that that tortured person I was last week is still inside me somewhere – I can feel it. However, I also know that the happy-go-lucky and driven social butterfly that people see me as is ALSO who I am. How do I reconcile these two drastically different personalities? Is the person people see me as who I really am, or is it just the medication? Am I actually the lunatic I was last week? If so, that really frightens me.
I’m so embarrassed about my psychological history. I don’t tell ANYONE about my self-harm history, or that I’ve had to go to the hospital before for cutting myself. I’m afraid people would think I was just another privileged “emo” white girl looking for attention. Furthermore, I’m afraid of people thinking I’m “crazy.” Is there any hope of me living a normal life, like everyone else?
I’m terrified of ever getting married or, even worse, having children. What if something like that happens to me again, especially if I have children? Should I just never have kids, despite the fact that I love children? Am I the sort of person who should remain alone, in order to limit the emotional pain that my condition inflicts on others? I have NEVER had a desire to physically harm others, but I know that people tend to bond with me, and if I committed suicide, it would be a huge betrayal.
I just feel so incredibly guilty for trying to kill myself again, even if it was withdrawal. I love my family and close friends; and I’m so angry that I was willing to put them through so much agony in order to satisfy my desire for self-destruction.
Continued in added details…
So, to summarize, these are my questions:
1. Is the self-destructive person I was last week who I REALLY am? Does my medication make me someone I’m not?
2. If who I am on medication is a real part of me, how do I reconcile that with the tortured person that I was last week?
3. How can I avoid reaching the state I was in last week, so that I can avoid causing my family and friends pain? What are some ways to ensure I never run out of medication?
Continued in more added details…
4. Since I know that I become dangerous to myself when I’m off my medication, how can I ever trust myself to be a good parent? What if that situation arises again, especially if I’m in charge of their welfare?
5. When I first started taking this medication, I was told I would have to take it for at least a decade. Will I have to take it my entire life? Will I ever be able to function independent of it?
6. Let’s say you met someone who you found to be functional, responsible, intelligent, caring, friendly, upbeat, and funny (all terms people describe me as). How would you react if you found out they have the problems I do? Would you have a negative opinion of them? Would you lost trust in them (i.e. think of them as “crazy”)?
7. Why do some depressed people self-harm? Why do they feel a drive to do it?

Jonjune answers:
Avocado! I’m glad you’re OK. I’m so sorry you slipped back into that. It’s a horrible place to be, I know. I don’t have all the answers, but as a crazyass, I can understand what you’re going through. I sincerely hope you find a better way to get your meds from now on and I hope that receptionist knows that she had a part in your hospitalization. Maybe you could show up and just smear some blood on her best purse so she remembers to answer the phone from now on.
1. I don’t know. Maybe. If the medication makes you functional, then who cares?
2. It takes years to figure that stuff out. My first psychotic episode was over 5 years ago and I still can’t figure out what happened.
3. I keep an emergency jar of Haldol available. If nothing else, I can take enough to knock me out so I can’t slice my wrists open in the bathtub. You may need to keep your hospital on speed dial, under “In case of emergency.” Can you stash some at a trusted friend’s house? Let your provider know that you’re trying to make a small stash so he or she can give you an extra refill.
4. You tell those you trust what your weaknesses are and create a support network. I have had postpartum psychosis. WHen I had my third child, I had a whole team of providers, neighbors and friends standing by. They knew what to do if I started talking about things that didn’t exist or panicking for no reason. When it happened, everyone sprung into action before anyone could be hurt. The kids have no idea that mama is nuts.
5. Maybe. Maybe you’ll eventually find the right balance in your life without drugs. I hope to get there someday too. *fingers crossed*
6. How does knowing my diagnosis change your opinion of me? We’ve been casual acquaintances for a couple years, right? Do you think less of me? I admire that you were able to get the help you needed when you needed it. It’s always been hard for me to get help with my mental issues. In my book, your ability to get the help you needed makes you pretty cool. Sure, you had help, but we all need help. We need help staying functional and sane. Others need help with telling funny jokes. We got the sense of humor; others can assist with maintaining sanity.
7. To this day, I’ve never understood why I do it, but when I want to do it, nothing can stop me! It’s like an instinct or something. It’s an urge I cannot ignore. I don’t know why.

Michael asks…
What could be wrong with my Grandma?
(Before anyone freaks out and says “take her to the ER right now!” she’s already at the ER waiting to be seen, I’m just really concerned and want to know what might be wrong with her)
My grandma is 73 years old. She’s in decent health for someone her age, apart from bad IBS, high cholesterol, being like 80% deaf, bad sinuses, generalized anxiety disorder, allergies, osteoporosis, having a MRSA infection in her bladder, and being a bit senile. A few days ago, she showed me something that she thought was a bug bite on her leg. I didn’t say anything to her, but it looked almost identical to the MRSA infection I had on my leg 6 months ago ( we don’t tell her when we suspect anything like that because of her generalized anxiety disorder which makes her dwell on everything until she’s physically ill). I told my mom though, who has power of attorney over my grandma. She said she’d make her an appt to get it checked out. Today, the “bug bite” on her leg doesn’t look like MRSA anymore, but rather a bruised lump. She also has numerous other bruises on her legs, and her legs hurt her so bad she can’t hardly walk or move them. Her blood pressure is sky high ( 188/110). She feels achy all over, almost like she has the flu (she’s been this way for a couple of days now). She also has a horrible headache, and according to her general practitioner whom she saw today, her brain is swollen (I have no idea how a general practitioner can tell that though). Also, I have no idea if this is relevant or not, but the night before last she said she woke up in the middle of the night and was just completely drenched in sweat, like someone had dunked her underwater, even though it was like 70 degrees in her room. She’s also very anemic.
Two things that I’m concerned about are she has a history of deep vein thrombosis (she almost died from it when she was in her 40′s) and many of her symptoms are very consistent with Leukemia. I’m just very, very scared, I already lost my other grandma to cancer just 3 MONTHS AGO, I can’t go through losing my other grandma (and last grandparent, both of my grandpa’s are also dead) this soon…

Jonjune answers:
I’m really sorry to hear about your grandma. I’m not a doctor or anything, so I can’t tell you what’s wrong with her. Are you located in a place where swine flu is around? If so, I would check the symptoms of it. I’ve heard the elderly and very young are most at risk.
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Mandy asks…
Congrats to the Pacman, voted WBC’s Fighter of the Decade?
A much deserved award for the Pacman!
http://www.mb.com.ph/articles/296606/pacquiao-fighter-decade
Pacquiao named WBC’s Fighter of the DecadeBy NICK GIONGCOJanuary 4, 2011, 6:27pm
Although Pacquiao held numerous titles in other sanctioning bodies during the last 10 years, the 32-year old Filipino pound-for-pound king also won several championships under the WBC banner.MANILA, Philippines — Manny Pacquiao was voted by the World Boxing Council (WBC) as its Fighter of the Decade (2001-2010), WBC’s long time chief Jose Sulaiman announced from the governing body’s headquarters in Mexico City.
Pacquiao beat out Oscar De La Hoya and a few other marquee names for the coveted award.
Although Pacquiao held numerous titles in other sanctioning bodies during the last 10 years, the 32-year old Filipino pound-for-pound king also won several championships under the WBC banner.
Pacquiao briefly held the WBC super-featherweight and lightweight titles and just recently annexed the super-welterweight title to his growing collection after also winning titles at flyweight (WBC), super-bantam (International Boxing Federation), feather (The Ring magazine), super-lightweight (International Boxing Organization) and welter (World Boxing Organization).
The WBC Fighter of the Decade award will only add more luster to Pacquiao’s already proud name, having been given the same accolade by the Boxing Writers Association of America and The Ring magazine for the same feat.
Pacquiao is currently out of the country with his family and is slated to return to the ring on May 7 against Shane Mosley at the MGM Grand in Las Vegas.
A huge favorite against Mosley, Pacquiao plans to embark on an eight-week training camp for what he has described as “a very tough fight” considering Mosley’s durability and vast experience.
Trainer Freddie Roach said he is willing to camp out in Baguio City once again for four weeks and spend the next four at the Wild Card Boxing Club in Hollywood.

Jonjune answers:
The man, the myth, the legend.
Always imitated, never replicated.
Congratulation to the Pacman.

Maria asks…
A different slant on a popular concept. What football club are we?
AaaaAaaaAaAaaAH!! Now that made you think!
It’s the same as ‘Who am I?’ …. but not…
We play in ‘The Chocolate Box’.
We have a fierce rivalry with a ‘wet item of crockery’
We share a record for international club competition titles.
…
Let’s play! Who’s gonna win that speedboat!!!?!!!!
Hahahahaha MJ you absolute bastard well done
I’m so bad at this ![]()
Boca play in ‘La Bombonera’ (The Chocolate Box).
They have a rivalry with ‘River Plate’.
They share the record for most international club titles with AC Milan.
Tony yes… haha I might aswell have just said, ‘they have a rivalry with River Plate’… I’m off to go and scratch meself now ![]()
@Boy MJ: Yes yes ok thank you, we’ve established that this was a gigantic cancerous fail now plz move along

Jonjune answers:
Boca Juniors??
Edit: Chocolate Box???La Bonbonera is one of the most known stadiums in the world, you could just say Boca Juniors’ stadium

Lizzie asks…
Muhammad Ali quiz & trivia?
1. Muhammed Ali was born Cassius Clay in 1942. In what state was he born?
2. At the age of 11 Clay joined a boxing club run by a police officer. Why did he join this boxing club?
3. After winning Olympic gold and turning professional, Clay was sponsored by a group of Louisville businessmen who hired his first pro trainer. What legendary boxer did they hire as his trainer?
4. In the months before he received his title shot, Clay had a very tough fight with a journeyman boxer that many at ringside believe should have won the descision. What was the name of this boxer that nearly beat Clay?
5. When Clay beat Sonny Liston to win the heavyweight title with a seventh round TKO, how old was he?
6. Immediately after winning the title Clay announced that he had converted to the nation of Islam (the Black Muslims), and that he was now to be called Muhammed Ali. The backlash from this announcement made virtually every major sporting center in the US refuse to host his rematch with Sonny Liston. Where was the fight finally held?
7. In 1967 Ali was convicted of refusing to be drafted into the United States armed forces. Every state revoked his boxing license and he was stripped of the heavyweight title. Who was the last man he defended the title against before this happened?
8. Throughout his ban from boxing Ali became one of the primary figures in the equal rights movement and even more of a hero to African-Americans for his persecution at the hands of the system. What 1970 documentary was made and released to theatres that showed this side of the man, as well as his boxing successes, to a national audience?
9. In 1970 Georgia was the first state to allow Ali a boxing license and he immediately staged a fight in Atlanta against the number one ranked heavyweight contender. Which boxer did he fight?
10. When Ali fought Joe Frazier in March, 1971 in his attempt to win back the heavyweight title, he had already been knocked down twice in his professional career. In what round did Frazier knock Ali down?
11. Ali began a campaign for another title shot immediately by fighting every heavyweight contender he could. Which opponent was so impressed with Ali’s skill that after he was knocked out in the 11th round picked Ali up and tried to carry him around the ring?
12. In early 1973 Ali fought the California heavyweight champion who dealt him the second loss of his career. The fighter was Ken Norton, and Ali ran from him most of the fight because Norton hit him with a right early in the fight that broke Ali’s jaw. What round was his jaw broken in?
13. While meeting with an upcoming opponent in the ABC studio on Wide World of Sports, Ali and the other fighter got into a scuffle that resulted in Ali having his own shoe thrown at him. Who was the opponent?
14. After beating Joe Frazier in a 1974 rematch, Ali got another shot at the title against George Foreman in Zaire. What future heavyweight champion did Ali take with him to Zaire as a sparring partner?
15. During the leadup to the Ali-Foreman fight, the bout was delayed due to an injury that Foreman incurred during training. What was the injury?
16. Ali would fight Joe Frazier a third time in 1975 as his fourth title defense since regaining the title. The ‘Thrilla in Manilla’ is one of the most exciting fights of all time, with both men giving it everything for the entire fight. Ali won when Frazier’s cornermen refused to let come come out of his corner for the next round. After what round did this happen?
17. In September 1976 Ali won a unanimous decision over the number one contender to retain the title. His opponent believed that he had beaten Ali, and after the fight Ali admitted to sportswriters that he should have lost the fight. Who was his opponent?
18. As Ali’s career wound down, he began fighting men who probably didn’t deserve a title shot. One man he fought had only seven professional fights under his belt when he fought Ali. Which boxer was this?
19. Ali’s final fight, as the beginning of an attempt to regain the title coming out of retirement, was against what future heavyweight champion?
20. After retiring from boxing, Ali urged his fans to support the new champion, Larry Holmes. He said, ‘Give Larry all of the love and encouragement you gave me, at least until ______
_______ ‘?

Jonjune answers:
Nobody has answered this because you asked way too much. I’ll answer ten and only ten, next time shorten it up.
1. Louisville Kentucky
2. Someone stole his bike and he wanted revenge
3. Archie Moore
4. Henry Cooper
5. 22
6. Lewiston Maine
7. Zora Folley
8. The Greatest
9. Jerry Quarry
10. 15

Robert asks…
What kinds of practicing can I do at home for my agility dog while it’s snowing outside?
I have some makeshift weave poles and hurdles outside as well as a pause box and table. What can I do indoors though? I go to an agility club but only can go once a week. She’s going for her UKC III title and her basic AKC titles. Thanks.

Jonjune answers:
Tons of things.
1. You have a bed? Well, that makes a great pause table to practice the up, off and holding a sit-stay or down-stay. My dog used to release early if I moved. So one winter we worked extensively–I’d send him to the bed, put him in a down-stay and then shift my position before releasing him.
2. Lots of things to do with just one jump. Get the Susan Garrett video on working with one jump.
3. And while we’re speaking of Susan Garrett, get her video on crate games. It’s about a lot more than just crates. And it’s invaluable for trialing.
4. Work on shaping. This improves focus and control. And shaping is ideal for indoor work. You just need a clicker and a bunch of weird stuff to work with.
5. Do tricks. Silvia Trkman of Slovenia argues that most of the “agility training” she does with her dogs is just doing tricks in her apartment. You learn how your dog learns, most of the tricks become invaluable agility warmups, your learns you’re the source of fun and good treats–what’s not to like.
6. Strength and balance training. Take stairs. Put a treat on each step, alternating sides (left/right). This increases your dog’s awareness of her hind legs and improves strength. Get a conditioning ball, put your dog on it and then work one leg–builds strength and balance. Create a buja board to improve your dog’s balance and comfort with movement.
7. Contact training. Get a board and work on your 2o2o (or whatever your contact system is). If you’ve always wanted to do a running contact, if you start working intensively now with the board, you “might” be ready by April–maybe.
8. Flatwork/shadow handling. Practice front and rear crosses with your dog. Do inside and outside circles.
9. Distance work. “Send” your dog up the stairs by giving the command and then tossing a piece of string cheese to the landing. Have your dog heel and walk to a trashcan or easy chair and give your dog the “out” command.
All of this stuff should keep you busy until about August.

Susan asks…
What’s the book about an Old-Western magician who tries in vain to fleece the townspeople during a seance?
Hey, thanks for giving this a look! I ordered a paperback childrens book from the Scholastic book club in elementary school, twenty years ago, and the story was so good, I want to find it for my stepson. The story takes place in the Old West. A couple of bright youngsters in a small town have a problem — It seems a travelling magician and his lackey, a huge, grim man who never speaks, are planning to fleece the townspeople of their money during a public seance, featuring a coffin and all! A spirit will be conjured from the pine box, or something to that effect. Unbeknownst to anyone except the two youngsters, the plan is for the grim, tall brute to steal some money from a bank vault while the lights are all down. The kids manage to turn a light on the dastardly duo in the act of burglarizing the vault, and the town’s money is saved! I can’t think of the title, and I must find this awesome, illustrated paperback for my kids to enjoy. Any leads would be appreciated.

Jonjune answers:
I think it’s “The Ghost on Saturday Night” by Sid Fleischman. Http://www.amazon.com/Ghost-Saturday-Night-Beech-Chapter/dp/0688149200/?tag=24680e-20
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Betty asks…
Will title max accept $300 less if paying in full?
Stupidest thing I’ve ever done….seriously. I just want to get it paid off and over with but I’m about 300 short. Has anybody had any dealings with them?

Jonjune answers:
Would you accept 300 less on your next paycheck since I’m paying you all at once?
Didn’t think so.

Ruth asks…
creative cereal box title MAX POINTS?
what is a creative title for a cereal box about the carthiginian general Hannibal? please dont just post hannib-os. something better please and ill give max points

Jonjune answers:
Hanniballs? Haha. Like Coco puffs?…
Ummm Hannicane (like candycane) bits?
Labinnah’s?

Daniel asks…
What is the title of the show that has the characters Max and Enric?
I would like to know the name of the series of this show.
The plot is that there are two boys, Max and Enric, who are in love and are gay.
It is also a show spoken in Spanish.
PLEASE HELP>

Jonjune answers:
El Cor de la Ciutat = The Heart of the City
I think it’s in Catalan, not Spanish

Steven asks…
car pawn, title mAX?
i have a car loan with title max, if i am late how long do i have before they come get it?

Jonjune answers:
I am not really certain, I would at least call and make arrangements. I would think at least 7 days.

Richard asks…
Title Max….and the title?
When you pawn your title with title max does the title then become in their name until you pay the title off?….

Jonjune answers:
I think that they put a lien on the title.
That way you cant sell the car without settling the debt/loan.
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Helen asks…
Will title max accept $300 less if paying in full?
Stupidest thing I’ve ever done….seriously. I just want to get it paid off and over with but I’m about 300 short. Has anybody had any dealings with them?

Jonjune answers:
Would you accept 300 less on your next paycheck since I’m paying you all at once?
Didn’t think so.

Lizzie asks…
creative cereal box title MAX POINTS?
what is a creative title for a cereal box about the carthiginian general Hannibal? please dont just post hannib-os. something better please and ill give max points

Jonjune answers:
Hanniballs? Haha. Like Coco puffs?…
Ummm Hannicane (like candycane) bits?
Labinnah’s?

Linda asks…
What is the title of the show that has the characters Max and Enric?
I would like to know the name of the series of this show.
The plot is that there are two boys, Max and Enric, who are in love and are gay.
It is also a show spoken in Spanish.
PLEASE HELP>

Jonjune answers:
El Cor de la Ciutat = The Heart of the City
I think it’s in Catalan, not Spanish

Donald asks…
car pawn, title mAX?
i have a car loan with title max, if i am late how long do i have before they come get it?

Jonjune answers:
I am not really certain, I would at least call and make arrangements. I would think at least 7 days.

Charles asks…
Title Max….and the title?
When you pawn your title with title max does the title then become in their name until you pay the title off?….

Jonjune answers:
I think that they put a lien on the title.
That way you cant sell the car without settling the debt/loan.
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Laura asks…
Title for our Thursday wedding pre-party with friends at a club?
Want something funny, kitschy, and clever.
“White Wedding ThursDay” (my idea)
“Box Social” was the FH’s idea (don’t ask, b/c i have no idea)
“The Wedding Kick-off” (was my BM’s idea)
Any others? I love creative ideas…

Jonjune answers:
I like yours…white wedding thursday…and have everyone where white it will look kool if you go to a club with black lighting.
Have fun!!!

Thomas asks…
Can anyone suggest some improvement for my speech on Muhammad Ali?
THIS SHOULD LAST 3 MINUTES:
My three minute talk is on Muhammad Ali, the boxer, heavyweight champion and Olympic Gold Medallist who is thought of as being one of the most talented and inspirational icons in the world of sport.
Muhammad Ali was born Cassius Clay in Kentucky, USA. He was an African-American and suffered abuse and racism in his home town, but this did not stop him perusing his dream. When Cassius was twelve years old, his bike was stolen from him, he went to the Sheriff of his town who at the time ran a boxing gym, he told him when he found the thief he was going to beat him up. The Sheriff, called Joe Martin convinced Clay to first learn how to fight and to join the boxing club.
Within a few short weeks Clay picked up on how the sport worked and his potential began to shine through. He then became an amateur boxer with a record of 100 wins and only 5 losses.
From their Cassius made his country proud in winning Gold for Light heavyweight boxing in the 1960 Olympics in Rome.
His amazing talent and ability became known across the country and in 1964 Cassius Clay was to challenge the current Heavyweight Champion – Sonny Liston for his title.
Cassius won – and officially became the undisputed champion. Soon after Clay decided to convert to the Islamic or Muslim faith, and changed his name to Muhammad Ali. Ali changed his religion as did many black Americans because their slave ancestors, captured by the Americans, were originally Muslims and were forced to become Christians by the slave masters.
Controversy continued followed Ali through his life, reaching a stage where he faced a five year prison sentence this was because during the Vietnam War, Americans were being drafted into the military and forced to fight for their country, when told to join the army Ali refused and would not respond to the Soldiers when they called him Cassius Clay.
After barely escaping prison Ali was banned from boxing, his title taken from him and his Muslim leaders banned him from their churches. But his persistence and effort finally paid off and after lots of hard work Muhammad Ali reclaimed his title and went on to beat other renowned boxers who many believed he could not in his much older age.
But in 1984 Muhammad Ali was diagnosed with Parkison’s Disease, making him very weak and unable to box again. But even in retirement Ali remains an active public figure, making visits to US Soldier’s in Iraq and in 2005 was awarded a Presidential Medal of Freedom Award for his contribution to the civil rights or racial equality movement. A film was also made about his life and career, titled Ali it was a box office hit and starred actor Will Smith.
Many boxers of today such as Mike Tyson, Ricky Hatton, David Hay and Lennox Lewis list Muhammad Ali as their number one icon and the reason they chose the path they did.
I believe Muhammad Ali is an inspiration figure, who can teach everyone from different jobs and backgrounds about how effort can pay off and to never give up. Even in his darkest days, when he couldn’t do what he loved, when he was facing prison or divorce, he remained strong and proved to the world that hard work can make anything happen.

Jonjune answers:
Your intro is a little dry, it restates the assignment. “My three minute talk…”
Ali was known for his bragging… You could start it out with something catchy like
“He floated like a butterfly and stung like a bee. He called himself The Greatest, and proved it time after time. He is Muhammad Ali, the boxer, heavyweight champion and Olympic Gold Medallist who is thought of as being one of the most talented and inspirational icons in the world of sport.”
Something catchier will grab and hold the audience’s attention throughout the speech. The rest looks pretty good.

Ruth asks…
Please help identify a music video artist and title from 1997/1998 ?
Hi everyone,
i have been trying and trying for years to chase up the Artist and Title of a video clip from 1997/1998 roughly that i cant seem to track down …. I think it was a charted hit as i only remember hearing it on MTV and count downs but paid no attention then.
The Song is an R&B style tune that i was not really into back then but I clearly remember the clip being played regularly around this time.
the Video clip is set in a bar or night club with a boxer in a boxing ring in the back ground.
while the boxers go at it in the background a young black lady is sitting at a table singing the actual song …. she is closer to the camera than the boxers fighting but the camera regularly pans to one of the boxers sweating it out … kinda sad song.
if i think of anything else i will post it up …
thanks
Dj

Jonjune answers:
Only thing that comes to mind like this is cheryle lynne ( encore ) but that was early 80 s check it out maybe the same song

Sandy asks…
Politics in Boxing?
In South Africa the politics in Boxing is Ridiculous. In fact Boxing in South Africa is Politics. It does not matter how good you are if you come up against a fighter from a certain Amateur Club you will lose because the officials are all mates with the coaches and family of the boxer’s. Than when it comes to Pro Boxing we have 1 gym that get’s recognised. Fighter’s from that gym get all the Big Title shots and all the money. There is so much politics involved that many Boxer’s lose faith and retire prematurely and it is killing the sport. I would just like to know if there is politics in Boxing all over or if it is just here in SA? If you have been Cheated, Please Let me Know your Story?

Jonjune answers:
Lol! Your right, there is politics in boxing. I took up boxing from age 12 till i was 22 and there were guys everyone knew (including myself) that i could beat! But it all boils down to WHO YOU KNOW!!!! And WHO has the most MONEY!!!!! Since then i haven’t thought about boxing ever again. I(i’m 30 now)

Carol asks…
Who can tell me more about Boxing Hall of Famer Peter Jackson?
Here’s what I have learned…
1) He fought from 1882-1892 and is viewed by many (not all) boxing historians as the best Heavyweight of that era.
2) His record was 45-4-5 with 31 no contests.
3) He was the Austrailian Heavyweight champ, British Empire Heavyweight champ, and the “colored” Heavyweight champ*
4) *John L Sullivan refused to fight him because he refused to defend his title against a black man.
5) He had a 61 round draw against James Corbett (who won the Heavyweigth title the very next year. He fought that fight with an ankle injury. Corbett said Jackson could beat any heavyweight he ever saw” and ” I saw him box an exhibition with Bob Fitzsimmons (another great) at the old California Athletic Club , and it was like a professor giving a pupil a lesson.”
Can anyone tell me more about his fistic accomplishments, his fighting style and why he is never mentioned?
skeet and toughguy, thanks for your info…skeet, who else in that era was overlooked in your opinion?
nic, thank you for your contribution…never heard the part about Johnson visiting his grave…I did see a pic of his grave in my search.

Jonjune answers:
Jackson actually fought until 1899,he had a 6 year layoff after 1892.He fought Jim Jeffries and was knocked out in the third round.You pretty much have all the info but as far as why he is never mentioned?I don’t know.He along with many fighters of the era especially the black fighters are overlooked.He was no doubt great but like many pre WWII fighters is largely forgotten.Jackson is someone who should be talked about more but i can name about 50 fighters that should be as well.
Some fighters from Jackson’s era 1885-1910.
Joe Gans…………………..George Dixon
Joe Jeannette…………….Sam McVey
Terry McGovern…………Jack McAuliffe
Abe Attell…………………..Jim Driscoll
Dixie Kid……………………Joe Walcott
Joe Choynski……………..Tommy Burns
Billy Papke…………………Battling Nelson
Jack Root…………………..Owen Moran
Packey McFarland
Philadelphia Jack O’Brien
Tommy Ryan
Nonpareil Jack Dempsey
Young Griffo
Ad Wolgast
I’m sure there are some i missed but thats all for now
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John asks…
Will title max accept $300 less if paying in full?
Stupidest thing I’ve ever done….seriously. I just want to get it paid off and over with but I’m about 300 short. Has anybody had any dealings with them?

Jonjune answers:
Would you accept 300 less on your next paycheck since I’m paying you all at once?
Didn’t think so.

James asks…
creative cereal box title MAX POINTS?
what is a creative title for a cereal box about the carthiginian general Hannibal? please dont just post hannib-os. something better please and ill give max points

Jonjune answers:
Hanniballs? Haha. Like Coco puffs?…
Ummm Hannicane (like candycane) bits?
Labinnah’s?

George asks…
What is the title of the show that has the characters Max and Enric?
I would like to know the name of the series of this show.
The plot is that there are two boys, Max and Enric, who are in love and are gay.
It is also a show spoken in Spanish.
PLEASE HELP>

Jonjune answers:
El Cor de la Ciutat = The Heart of the City
I think it’s in Catalan, not Spanish

Jenny asks…
car pawn, title mAX?
i have a car loan with title max, if i am late how long do i have before they come get it?

Jonjune answers:
I am not really certain, I would at least call and make arrangements. I would think at least 7 days.

Robert asks…
Title Max….and the title?
When you pawn your title with title max does the title then become in their name until you pay the title off?….

Jonjune answers:
I think that they put a lien on the title.
That way you cant sell the car without settling the debt/loan.
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George asks…
Boxing fans: What’s going on at The La Colonial Boxing Club? More details in this question?
I hope everyone had a Merry Christmas and hope you’ll have a Happy New Year!
BQ:] This questions concept idea was brought up before by Norman Bates that
was regarding the Wild Card Boxing Gym now I’m asking what’s going on at the
La Colonial Boxing Club? First, “Vicious” Victor Ortiz self destruction during the
Floyd Mayweather Jr fight, Brandon “Bam Bam” Rios doesn’t make weight then,
as a result he loses his WBA Lightweight Championship and Rios almost lost to
John Murray and finally, Antonio Margarito lost the rematch he guaranteed to win
when he fought Miguel Cotto again. I want to specify I’m a Latino and I am merely
asking this to hear other boxing fans opinion are they or are they not getting them
mentally and physically prepared for their respective professional fights? Is it those
fighters themselves who are just getting the job done in the ring, with all respect to
Brandon Rios who pulled off a dramatic comeback to win his fight, he did lose that
WBA Lightweight title for not making weight. I just wanna hear some good opinions.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AuSoyOFwY6Db.jvje1orZ3_ty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20111210215025AAwQYkt
@Odlanyer: Good hearing from you bro. My Christmas holiday was good I bought
myself a few nice presents some clothes, Derrick Rose Chicago Bulls Green NBA
Jersey, cologne, Hip Hop music Cd’s, some Dvd’s and a few other novelty presents.
I posted up a new question feel free to answer the question when you get a chance.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhqITSB34Rs7cgk9r19Xes_sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20111227230819AAudatH

Jonjune answers:
Merry Christmas Bro. Hope you got a good one. I got a very nice one with the family gathering like a reunion. My gifts consist of tools so I could fix these peoples cars and a sausage maker (grinder and stuffer) so I could make them some good sausages, Lol. Nothing for my personal use but it’s alright. Lifes too dull without them anyways.
Life is a cycle. We can not expect to have all the good things. There is always an up and downs. Freddie Roach was a trainer of the year recipient for several years and he can not expect to have it every year.
What happened to Brandon Rios is a trainer’s negligence. It is one of their responsibility to make sure that their fighter were in a proper weight since it is a part of conditioning. Nobody to blame but Rios himself, the trainer and conditioning coach if there’s any.
The way I look at it and as far as my opinion is concern, what happened during the weigh-in when Floyd choke Ortiz out gets to Victor and he makes sure that the fight will be a dirty one since it started dirty with all the trash talking. The head butting is a very unwarranted one but nobody knows how far a human will react when provoke. In fact, in my opinion, Ortiz lost the fight at that instant by doing nothing. Too bad that he did retaliate during the fight.
Antonio Margarito is not suppose to be issued a license after that busted orbital bone. It is a very serious injury with a chance that he might loss the use of that eye. It will always be the target since we all know that an opposing fighter will always capitalize on their advantage.
No matter what, Robert Garcia is a very strong candidate for trainer of the year. His accomplishment is good enough to make him one. Amir Khan and Manny Pacquiao failed Freddie Roach this year.

Sandra asks…
does anybody know the title of a film set in and around a night club involving breaking into safety deposit bo?
does anybody know the title of a film set in and around a night club involving the blackmailing of the manager by the local heavies to break into safety deposit boxes next door – either a 90s or 00 film
thanks

Jonjune answers:
Kinda sounds like the bank job.

Charles asks…
Name of cereal sold at Sam’s Club with sweet Strawberry/Banana clusters and “Crunch” in the title
My Sam’s Club used to carry a very delicious cereal. I am now trying to find it online, but I can’t remember the name. It came in a double-size box, likely had the word “Crunch” in the title, and contained sweet clusters with strawberry pieces, possibly banana as well. I have a faint feeling that this product was either organic (more likely) or from Canada (less likely), perhaps both.
Does anyone know what I’m talking about? Thanks!

Jonjune answers:
It sounds kinda of like it was Special K or there was one called Strawberry Banana Crunch.http://www.samsclub.com/shopping/navigate.do?dest=5&item=259211

Nancy asks…
why does my knee feel weird?
i got off of title boxing club a couple hours ago and my knee feels weird when i walk it does not hurt at all or anything and when i kick hard i can hear a click what should i do

Jonjune answers:
There are many possible causes for a clicking knee, some of which are potentially serious and troubling, and others which really aren’t a serious problem. To decide which camp your knee difficulties fall into you need to look at the other symptoms that occur along with your clicking and to see if it responds to some gentle treatment of your own.
If it sounds more like a pop, then there may be nothing to worry about. Popping and snapping within the knee is quite common, and often not a symptom of any particular problem. When the pops or snaps are painless, there is usually no problem–the bigger concern is when these sounds are associated with pain. A pop is often heard or felt when a ligament, such as the ACL, is torn.
If the noise is more of a crunching or scraping noise then this might be the result of your bones grinding against each other. If this is the case then you should be concerned and see a doctor as it can otherwise cause erosion and lead to arthritis.
Http://www.healthguidance.org/entry/13196/1/Clicking-in-the-Knee.html
http://orthopedics.about.com/od/hipknee/a/kneesymptoms.htm
http://www.doctorslounge.com/orthopedics/forums/backup/topic-4158.html

Helen asks…
Besides all of his boxing achievements, what else has Manny Pacquiao done?
Im doing a research paper and i have to include other examples of what Pacquiao has done besides won all these boxing titles. Has he started any fundraisers, clubs, raised money, etc? and could you please provide links, cuz i have to cite
Thank you in advance

Jonjune answers:
Fundraiser for injured/crippled fighter Z Gorres:
http://www.gmanews.tv/pbr/videos/55438/qtv-manny-pacquiao-auctions-memorabilia-holds-fundraising-concert-for-z-gorres
Fundraiser benefit dinner:
http://chapter2band.wordpress.com/2008/10/13/manny-pacquiao-fundraiser-benefit-dinner-video-excerpts/
Charity work with LA Mayor Antonio Villraigosa :
http://www.asianjournal.com/aj-magazine/midweek-mgzn/1389-manny-the-pacman-pacquiao-knocking-out-charity-work.html
Proceeds going towards Filipino Arts and Manilatown Heritage Foundation:
http://www.aaja.org/news/community/2009_04_22_01/
His earnings going towards building schools, school books and medical procedures in the Philippines:
http://www.boxingscene.com/?m=show&id=17233
Pacquiao donating time and money to the victims of Typhoon Ondoy in the Philippines:
http://sports.inquirer.net/breakingnews/breakingnews/view/20091029-232871/Pacquiao-Charity-work-wont-derail-title-bid
Donating a signed Pacquiao glove to raise funds for Project Hydr8, to build clean water wells in Kenya, Africa:
http://www.8countnews.com/news/125/ARTICLE/1533/2009-04-12.html
T-shirt sales to help the victims of typhoon Ondoy:
http://www.streetlevel.com/2009/11/11/imking-x-manny-pacquiao-charity-tee/
Having accomplished his wishes for his own family, he began spreading and sharing his wealth to other people who would need help. To institutionalize his charity work, he set up a foundation to help people in need, giving scholarship to poor kids, giving money for the hospitalization of cancer victims, and making funds available for projects with social relevance.
Http://www.bukisa.com/articles/45780_what-makes-manny-pacquiao-so-popular-the-world-over
There’s tons more, but these are just a few examples.
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